Please describe the general feel you are looking for in your ceremony... A Secular-Civil Ceremony, Contemporary Christian Ceremony, a Traditional Christian Ceremony, or something else. (Use the "Other" field to describe what you are looking for)

Please select the how you would like your officiant to welcome your family and friends. You can write your own version in the "Other" field

There are lots of ways for your Father or Escort to answer this question. Select a response above, or write your own in the "Other" field. We will advise your escort how to answer this question.

Please select how you would like your officiant to begin the ceremony. You can use the "Other" field to write your own version of the opening.

(Please make one selection.) Here your officiant will provide guidance to the bride and groom or recite an opening prayer or custom reading. If you have your own wording you may add it to the "Other" field.

This is an optional way to recognize the parents of the bride and groom. Be sure to type in the name of all parents into the blank spaces above if you want this blessing.

This is an optional way to recognize and involve children of the bride and groom in your wedding. It is also a step in the formation of your new family. Be sure to type in the name of all your children in the blank spaces above if you want this blessing.

Writing your own vows does add romance, sincerity and feeling to your ceremony. As an Officiant I love it when couple take the time and effort to reflect upon why they are getting married. However, this can be very emotional and it not for everyone. It you are writing your own vows I suggest you make notes on index cards and let me hold them for you until the proper time in your ceremony. If your ARE writing your own vows you may skip the next section.

Select the option above that best fits your needs. Your officiant will recite the passages above and ask each of you to say "I Do".

Your Officiant will read these word in short sentences for you to repeat after him as you place the rings on your beloved.

The Unity Sand Ceremony has emerged as a popular alternative to the traditional Unity Candle. It is also a great way to allow the children to participate in the ceremony and form a family.

Please select the wording your would like your Officiant to use to explain the Unity Sand Ceremony to your guests.

Here are optional readings and prayers that you might consider at this point in the ceremony.

Select the closing comments your Officiant will use to bring your ceremony to a close. Feel free to type your own text into the "Other" box if you have your own wording you would like to us.

Please select how you want to be introduced as a married couple.